A legacy of resilience: Honoring a residential school survivor’s journey on Truth and Reconciliation Day

On Monday, September 30, the Barrie Native Friendship Centre hosted a Truth and Reconciliation Day event at the Spirit Catcher. The day began with a Sunrise Ceremony at 6:30 a.m., followed by a Sacred Fire, and concluded with a Memorial Walk. Troy Monague, the evening event's host, shared the powerful story of his grandfather, a survivor of the Residential School system.

Deepak Bidwai– Local Journalism Initiative

Troy Monague, who is Anishinaabe, reflects on the impact his late grandfather had on his family and community. A residential school survivor, his grandfather was the youngest Indigenous chief at the time. Troy said his story is one of resilience, humor, and leadership.

Troy remembers his grandfather's remarkable storytelling ability. Even when recounting the darkest moments of his life—abuse and starvation at residential schools—he had a way of making people laugh. “Maybe that was his way of protecting himself and those listening,” Troy reflects. One story that stands out is when his grandfather and his friends stole cheese from the school kitchen, a rare treat for children who were fed only bread and mush. With clever planning, they managed to sneak the cheese in and out of their dorm, eating it piece by piece over time. Despite the harsh punishment for theft, Roger always told the tale with a smile.

But there was more than just humor. His grandfather’s time in residential school left deep scars. He eventually escaped, traveling alone to Toronto with the help of a compassionate police officer, and later worked in factories before joining the military. It wasn't until his 60s that he sought the healing he needed after years of carrying the burden of his trauma.

Through it all, his grandfather’s legacy is not one of despair but of thriving. He became the youngest chief in Ontario and was known for his leadership and dedication to his people. Though he passed away while still on his journey to healing, his resilience and strength live on through Troy and their family. His story, like many survivors of Canada's residential school system, serves as a reminder of the power of survival, hope, and community.

In sharing his grandfather’s life, Troy ensures that his legacy of perseverance and leadership continues to inspire future generations.